4/5/2006
Vol. 3, No. 5
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Professional
Practice |
Megory Anderson
on being present with the dying
Sacred
Dying
Susan was right
in the middle of her CPE training
when she got the word that her
mother was dying. “I thought
I would be ready for this,”she
told me, “but even being
here at the hospital all summer
long, I’m not sure I can
do this. I don’t feel ready.
I don’t know what to do.”
My work in Sacred
Dying has been to help guide
people through the dying process.
As a culture, we often marginalize
the dying, leaving them to fend
for themselves. Our healthcare
practitioners provide medical
care, of course, but spiritual
care for the dying is an art
we have somehow forgotten.
Our dying remind
us of this in their call for
a “good death,”and
our spiritual caregivers challenge
us, too.
As I travel across
the country, one of the common
cries I hear from clergy and
chaplains is: “I wasn’t
taught how to do this! Give me
some tools!”
More and more,
our seminaries are recognizing
the fact that we have a large
generation of people who are
elderly and dying, and our boomers
are also aging. It is time to
focus on the spiritual care of
the dying.
There are tools
out there, with people and organizations
who address this need with dedication
and wisdom. Hospice. God bless
Hospice workers and volunteers.
There are good books out there
illustrating practices of numerous
faith traditions. I remember
one very sincere woman who tried
reading her dying mother portions
from The Tibetan Book of
Living and Dying. That book
is a classic, and filled with
incredible wisdom and insight,
but the poor Methodist mother
from Kansas City couldn’t
quite get her head around the
Buddhist concept of phow and
reincarnation. Perhaps we might
look within our own traditions
for the rites and prayers handed
down throughout history.
What are three
things we can do as we are called
on to be with the dying, either
in the role of chaplain or even
as a friend or family member?
First of all, and
more than anything else, know
that the experience of dying
is a sacred transition, and one
of the most important experiences
we will ever go through. Being
a witness to that, and helping
guide the person through that
transition, is holy work.
1) Learn the art
of sacred presence. More often
than not, the dying want someone
with them who can sit quietly
and “hold”the space
for them.
2) Create a sacred environment. Use music, candles, or items that have special
meaning for the person dying.
3) Use ritual. Oftentimes, the clinical psycho-social model of engagement is
not satisfactory. Nor does the brief visit with a perfunctory prayer meet the
genuine needs of someone imminently facing the reality of death. Rituals have
the potential for transcending words and emotions.
As we learn to
honor the dying, to recognize
their spiritual and emotional
needs, we ourselves participate
in something greater. Being present
with the dying has changed my
life, and I hope that each of
you will gain extraordinary measure
in your own ministries as you
face death and those who are
dying.
Megory Anderson is the author
of Sacred Dying: Creating
Rituals for Embracing the End
of Life , and the Executive
Director of the Sacred Dying
Foundation, a non-profit organization
dedicated to transforming the
paradigm of death and dying.
She will be in New York City
on April 29th, 2006, conducting
an all day workshop entitled, Sacred
Dying: Reconciliation, Ritual,
and Reverence at Trinity
Church, Wall Street. For details,
e-mail: workshops@trinitywallstreet.org
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Advocacy |
Rev. Priscilla L. Denham on visual pastoral
care
Different
Perspectives on the Same Conversation
Perhaps our spoken words are
never received as clearly as we hope they
will be. So many layers of culture, history,
emotions, stereotypes, etc. are between any
speaker and listener in any conversation.
Twenty years ago, Maxine Glaz wrote an article
citing an interaction with me. Though she
used no identifying information, she kindly
showed me the draft to be sure I would not
feel offended or exposed by the way she presented
me. I was startled to see how two persons
could have markedly different perspectives
on a conversation. I was not offended. I
didn’t even recognize myself.
On reading the February 15, 2006 issue of PlainViews (“Do
Clothes Make the Chaplain," Sandra Katz),
I had a similar experience. Had my name not
been used, I would not have recognized myself
as the speaker. Though I’ve had numerous
discussions about the implications of garb
for women and men chaplains, I don’t
remember this specific conversation. The
tone of the attributions and the idea conveyed
that I think one should wear a collar or kippah “to
establish and assert authority”leaves
me feeling misrepresented.
Only twice (totaling five years) out of
25 years of chaplaincy did I wear a clerical
collar daily. The first time was when I was
also the Shock/Trauma ICU chaplain at Hermann
Hospital (Houston). People came here after
being scraped up off the highway or taped
together after a construction accident/ shooting/knifing.
No one ever planned to be there. Families
were invariably disoriented in the first
days they visited. Patients were unconscious
or (when momentarily awake) in tremendous
pain and drugged. So I wore a collar so they—without
having to read a name tag, hear through bandages,
sort through religious/hospital terminology,
or struggle with a drugged memory—could
know what my role was when I approached them.
My two male colleagues, a Methodist minister
and a Catholic priest with different clinical
assignments, did not wear collars.
My second stint of clerical collar wearing
was in Philadelphia as the University Chaplain
at Hahnemann. One day I wore a collar for
a memorial service. A Catholic head nurse,
a Jewish administrator, and a Pentecostal
security guard all expressed happiness at
seeing my collar as “a sign of religion”in
the halls. Because of huge ethical issues
emanating from a business consolidation of
hospitals, I realized any religious symbolism
was seen as a small ray of hope and right
ethics. Thereafter, I wore a collar every
day. It was regularly affirmed by students
and employees, including our Wicca EMTs and
our Buddhist and Muslim students.
The principle meaning is not, for me, authority,
but identity. The meaning of religious symbol –kippah or
clerical collar –is identity, hopefully,
not for the wearer, but for observers who
may be trying to cross a language/drug/memory
barrier that a recognizable religious symbol
can help them transcend. The power is not
political, but spiritual. Regardless of whether
a patient/family likes religion or accords
any authority to it, the identification allows
the conversation to begin with the patient
knowing what role (out of the multiple possible
roles) the person walking into the room is
claiming.
I was given advice (repeatedly) on how to
dress “with Authority”: wear
tailored clothing. As one with only two suits
and a wardrobe mostly floral or funky, I
chose to earn my authority through competence,
not garb. My choice to wear a collar was
based on pastoral considerations.
I was uncomfortable with the “you
need to…”language being attributed
to me. Perhaps pressures at Hahnemann brought
this out, perhaps I was attempting to say
something specific to her, maybe it was just
bad supervision (surely situational), but
- whatever I said - that is the way she heard
me. I comfort myself that she spelled my
name right, she remembered we discussed an
issue important to her eight years later,
and (apparently) the supervision led her
(whether through guidance or oppositional
struggle) to her own thinking and determination
of action…I hold on to the thought, “If
you can’t be a good example, you can
at least be a horrible lesson.”
Rev. Priscilla L. Denham is a United Church
of Christ pastor at The Federated Church of
Ayer, Ayer, MA. She has been a chaplain and
is a Fellow in the AAPC. Priscilla is an ACPE
Supervisor, who has been supervising students
for over 20 years. Most recently she had an
article published in The Journal of Pastoral
Care and Counseling, Winter, 2005.
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Education
& Research |
The Rev. Dan Dixson on the problem with
heightened expectations
Moral
Distress in Clinical Staff
A Pediatric ICU nurse comes to the chaplain to
talk about a three-year-old boy on a ventilator.
He has little hope for survival. The nurse
states that she and others are feeling badly
about the painful procedures to which they
must subject this boy. They do not believe
they can “torture”him any longer
and often go home in tears.
An ICU nurse comes to the chaplain stating
that the family of an 82-year-old man cannot
bring themselves to offer him comfort care
or even a DNR. The treatment that the patient
receives causes him incredible pain. The
nurse does not feel that she can morally
care for this patient any longer due to the
painful but futile nature of the care being
provided. She states that it goes against
everything she believes.
These cases demonstrate the kinds of issues
that can lead to significant moral distress
in clinical staff who provide care for seriously
ill patients. Moral distress generally is
seen in situations where a person must go
against one’s own principled beliefs
because of imposed constraints. In the setting
of nursing care, those constraints often
come from a physician, a patient’s
family, or the hospital administration. When
one knows the right course of action but
is required to follow a different course
in the care of a patient, or when patient
care is endangered by staffing situations,
moral distress may sometimes result and can
become professionally and emotionally debilitating.
Symptoms of moral distress may include fatigue,
fear, frustration, depression, withdrawal,
blaming, feelings of victimization, as well
as a sense of loss of personal and professional
integrity. It is one of the reasons given
for nurses leaving critical care nursing
or nursing altogether.
With the increasing improvement of life-sustaining
procedures comes a sense of heightened expectations
on the part of patients and family for good
clinical outcomes to nearly every serious
illness. Add to that the nursing shortages
and organizational changes to increase efficiency
in the hospitals and you have a recipe for
moral distress.
The hospital chaplain, who serves both patients
and staff, is in a unique position to assist
in the identification and prevention of moral
distress. There are a number of things that
might be done by chaplains to address this
issue, including:
- Encourage and take part in frequent
patient care conferences that bring together
an interdisciplinary team to discuss a
patient’s situation and treatment
plan.
- Build rapport with nurses and give them a safe place to talk about such
issues.
- Be available to verify that patients and families are hearing the entire
message that the medical team is giving to them about conditions and options.
- Be an active proponent of the Medical Ethics Committee process.
- Make sure that critical care nurse managers and directors are aware of
the Position Statement on Moral Distress created by the American Association
of Critical Care Nurses (www.aacn.org).
The role of chaplain places us at the forefront
of these issues. We cannot change the fact
that there will always be hard cases involving
hard decisions. Through education and advocacy,
however, we can help create an environment
where such cases do not have to destroy the
integrity or career of some of our finest
nurses.
The Rev. Dan Dixson is an ordained minister
of the Christian Church (Disciples of Christ).
He currently serves as the Coordinator for
Pastoral Services at Community Medical Center
in Missoula, Montana. He holds a Certificate
in Thanatology: Death, Dying and Bereavement
from the Association of Death Education and
Counseling. He provides education in the areas
of end-of-life care and spiritual care.
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Spiritual
Development |
Chaplain Darren C. Tourville on cleansing
the soul
Experiencing
Lent as a Time for Growth
As children, many of us dreamed
about what we would want to be as adults.
Fireman, teacher, nurse, professional baseball
player, etc…For some of us the vision
changed often, but for others the dream remained.
I don’t know about you personally,
but every time I see a St. Louis Cardinal
baseball game I envision the crowd cheering
for me instead of Mr. Pujols (some dreams
die slowly). This leads me to vocational
choice #2—Trashman. I’ve always
been fascinated with trash and its removal.
I guess that is the obsessive compulsive
side of me.
Where I grew up as a child we had a trash service that came by the house once
a week and carried our filth away. I always took it as an honor to get the
trash and put it out by the street and would hurry off the school bus to get
the can and put it back in the garage. There was a certain sense of accomplishment
in knowing our house was clean. (And yes, even today if you ask my wife I still
have some of those obsessive qualities when it comes to trash and its removal).
Why would I use this reflection to talk about trash you ask? Simply put, we
all have trash that affects us and we can’t get rid of it on our own.
Like the people in Max Lucado’s The Next Door Savior, we all
carry our bags of trash around daily burdened with the weight. Sure we ask
God to take it from us, but often in our humanity we take it right back. We
need a “Divine Trashman”who will take our filth to the dump for
burial. Once it’s taken and dealt with it is remembered no more.
This Lenten season at its best is a time for introspection and change. May
we as professional caregivers not forget our need for this type of cleansing.
May we hear God say of our trash, “May I have it? And may you never feel
it again.”
Darren C. Tourville is a staff chaplain
at St. John’s Hospital in Springfield,
Missouri. He is endorsed by the North American
Mission Board (SBC) and recently received his
membership as a Board Certified Chaplain in
the APC. His undergraduate degree is from Southwest
Baptist University, Bolivar, MO, with his Masters
of Divinity from Southwestern Baptist Theological
Seminary in Ft. Worth, Texas. Darren is married
and has three children.
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EthicsWalk |
EthicsWalk addresses
spiritual care as an ethical enterprise.
It explores why relationships between spiritual
care providers and those they serve need
protection, and examines what that protection
entails. PlainViews invites our
readers to share their responses to each EthicsWalk column,
which will be published in the following
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Please put the phrase “EthicsWalk”
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We look forward to hearing
from you.
End-of-Life
Discernment: Personal, not Political
On the first anniversary of Terri Schiavo’s death, Boston Globe columnist
Ellen Goodman[1] noted that people feel today pretty much the same about end
of life issues as they did a year ago.[2] There is not a red state-blue state
divide. Republican and Democratic law-makers have not kept Schiavo’s
tragedy alive to cultivate votes.[3]
When confronting decisions about death and
dying, most people want to rely on personal
faith and ethics rather than public policy
or laws. They want to be companioned by spiritual
care providers not lawyers and legislators.
That being said, spiritual care providers
need to be vigilant that government does
not intrude on the privacy of prayerful and
personal decision-making. Neither political
expediency nor the provider’s own beliefs
should exploit a patient’s, or designated
surrogate’s, when appropriate, considered
choices for end-of-life options.
Beneficent spiritual care requires a patient’s
wishes be explored, articulated, and honored.
The codes of ethics of the professional chaplaincy
organizations emphasize the chaplain’s
role in supporting patient autonomy in decision-making.
Political interference from Florida’s
governor, legislature, the U.S. Congress,
and President in Terri Schiavo’s case
illustrates why privacy for patient and surrogate
decision making cannot be taken for granted.
Zealous religious leaders and opportunistic
politicians can maneuver unwarranted governmental
interference, especially when families are
vulnerable to the attention.
Unlike the Schiavo situation, the federal
government seldom if ever intervenes in matters
of family law or medical decisions legitimate
under relevant state statutes. Federal jurisprudence
traditionally recognizes such areas properly
governed by laws responsive to the opinions
and needs of each state’s voters.
In recent years, attempts have increased
to assert federal influence. In 2001 then
Attorney General John Ashcroft sought to
use the Controlled Substance Act (CSA) to
thwart Oregon’s citizen approved Death
With Dignity Act (ODWDA). He issued an Interpretative
Rule [addressing the CSA] to de register
pharmacists and physicians who dispensed
or prescribed controlled substances to assist
suicide under the terms of ODWDA. The Ninth
Circuit invalidated the Rule.
On appeal, the Supreme Court held in a 6-3
decision January 2006: “The CSA does
not allow the Attorney General to prohibit
doctors from prescribing regulated drugs
for use in physician-assisted suicide under
state law permitting the procedure.”[4]
Writing for the majority, Justice Kennedy
quoted an earlier decision acknowledging, “Americans
are engaged in an earnest and profound debate
about the morality, legality, and practicality
of physician-assisted suicide.”[5]
He continued, “The dispute before us
is in part a product of this political and
moral debate, but its resolution requires
an inquiry familiar to the courts: interpreting
a federal statute to determine whether Executive
action is authorized by, or otherwise consistent
with, the enactment.”[6]
Chef Justice Roberts, Justices Scalia, and
Thomas dissented, arguing “if the term “legitimate medical
purpose”has any meaning, it surely
excludes the prescription of drugs to produce
death.”They seemed more concerned with
achieving a particular substantive result
(prohibiting physician-assisted suicide)
than upholding the “usual constitutional
balance between the States and the Federal
Government.”[7]
The question becomes, will end of life medical
options be characterized by uniform Federal
laws, a mosaic of particularized state statutes,
or respect for personal privacy to discern
one’s own ethical choices?
I welcome any comments you might want to
submit in response to these articles.
[1] “End-of-life issues being settled
quietly,”Ellen Goodman, Portland
Press Herald, editorial page, March
31, 2006.
[2] Id. Goodman reports that 63 percent a year ago thought Schiavo’s
feeding tube should be removed and the number remains the same today. A Field
Poll released March 15 showed “70% of adults in California believe terminally
ill patients have the right to ask for and receive life-ending medication,”according
to an article by Tom Chorneua at SFGate.com. The Field Poll has measured Californians
attitudes toward euthanasia eight times since 1979 at which time 64% favored
it. The 2006 Poll showed 65% of Protestants and 64% of Catholics support euthanasia
but 76% self-identified born-again Christians oppose legalizing the option.
[3] Id. Goodman reports that “49 bills have been filed in 23
state legislatures seeking law that would leave any patient without a living
will…on life support.”She observes that all “have stalled
or been watered down.”
[4] Gonzales, Attorney General, et al. v. Oregon et.al, __U.S. __
(2006) (No. 04-623, January 17, 2006). The majority said CSA’s purpose
is limited to preventing conventional drug abuse and excludes the Attorney
General from medical policy decisions.
[5] Washington v. Glucksberg, 521 U.S. 702,735 (1997).
[6] Gonzales, p. 1.
[7] Oregon v. Ashcroft, 368 F. 3d 1118 (2004) cited in Gonzales.
The Ninth Circuit noted that “by making a medical procedure authorized
under Oregon law a federal offense, the Interpretive Rule altered the usual
constitutional balance…”
Anne Underwood has an undergraduate degree
in religious studies, a master’s degree in
rural sociology and a mid-life law degree obtained
after working over a decade as a college administrator.
She has mediated for the Maine family courts
since 1983. Currently she serves as an advisor
to the ethics commissions of ACPE, APC, the
CCAR (Central Conference of American Rabbis),
and NAJC, and consults with a variety of Protestant
faith communities on issues of power, fair
process, and congregational conflict management.
Her articles on mediation and restorative justice
have appeared in the ACPE News, The APC News
and on the ACPE web site. Articles on clergy
accountability and judicatory processes are
published by the Alban Institute and The
Journal on Religion and Abuse. A chapter,
“Clergy Sexual Misconduct: A Justice Issue,”
appears in Body and Soul: Rethinking Sexuality
as Justice-Love, Marvin Ellison and Sylvia
Thorson-Smith, editors, The Pilgrim Press,
2003.
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CaseConference |
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CaseConference #6 Resolution
The Chaplain submitted this because of his
awareness that he had no knowledge of the
concept of or illustrations of examples of
forgiveness within Islamic literature and
theology. He was relying upon Christian stories.
Beyond that, there was the psychiatric issue
of narcissistic personality and the notion
that the patient was choosing to be the arbiter
of his own destiny...that is that he could
determine who God would forgive and not forgive.
Like many encounters with our patients,
we will never know how this turned out since
the patient was discharged to his family
and flown back to his country the next day.
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Reviews |
Sarah
Masters reviews two audio CDs
Blessed and Raise
Your Voice!
Any Chaplain seeking inspiration
might want to tune into two very uplifting
gospel CDs, each having a unique way of uncovering
spiritual truth: Blessed, performed
by the Soweto Gospel Choir and Raise
Your Voice by Sweet Honey in the Rock.
Southern African gospel music incorporates
vocals with background drums and Blessed reflects
that tradition along with the Western church
styles of music absorbed by the African culture.
Members of diverse backgrounds form the Soweto
Gospel Choir, and the listener will hear
uplifting music sung in Zhosa, Zulu, Sotho
and English. The choir won the prestigious
Australian Performing Arts Award in 2003
and has supported music legends from Bono
to the Eurythmics.
Raise Your Voice! is a compilation
of two live concerts performed by Sweet Honey
in the Rock, a Grammy Award-winning African-American
female a cappella ensemble. The six women
who form the group perform moving renditions
steeped in the sacred music of the black
church. From “In the Morning When I
Rise”to “Old Ship of Zion,”Raise
Your Voice! captures the magic that
flows between Sweet Honey and the Rock and
the audience and the tremendous on-stage
presence and energy of this group.
Blessed
Completed: 2005
Running Time: 50 Minutes
Shanachie Entertainment Corp.
Raise Your Voice!
Completed: 2005
Running Time: 70 Minutes
EarthBeat! Records
If you are interested in purchasing
this film, you can do so at www.hartleyfoundation.org.
Just click on “Sacred Sounds”on
the homepage for more information. The cost
for Blessed is $19.98 /CD and the
cost for Raise Your Voice! is $16.98/CD.
Sarah Masters is the Managing Director
of the Hartley Film Foundation, a non-profit
foundation dedicated to cultivation, support,
production and distribution of the best documentaries
and audio meditations on world religions, spirituality,
ethics and well-being.
Book
Review
Nancy
Berlinger, PhD, reviews
Theological
Bioethics: Participation, Justice, Change
Theology is a troublesome word for chaplains.
Like denominational clergy, chaplains are
products of theological training and ministerial
formation, but unlike these clergy, chaplains
must “forget”their denominationalism
if they are to succeed in multifaith ministry
to patients, families, and staff in health
care organizations. Chaplains must be prepared
to respond to tough theological questions,
while being mindful that their own theological
language and symbols are not universal and
may not translate well. They may try to steer
clear of “theology”altogether,
particularly if they work in institutions
where the role of chaplaincy is not well
defined, or is reduced to “meeting
religious needs.”
Lisa Cahill, one of the nation’s most
distinguished Catholic theologians, reminds
us that theology is “a process of reflection
on religious experience,”and that religious
experience has much more to do with stories,
symbols, and rituals than with abstract principles.
In Theological Bioethics, she focuses
on how religious experience –the real
beliefs and real practices of real people –intersects
with the decisions we make about health care,
and the systems we create to deliver, improve,
or deny health care within communities and
across societies. Chaplains work inside these
systems, and Cahill’s book will be
of special interest to those in Catholic
health care systems, or who are affiliated
with the Catholic Health Association (CHA),
the Community of Sant’Egidio, and other
organizations whose work in health care is
informed by Catholic teachings on social
justice. Her clear discussions of traditional
and influential Catholic tools for moral
reasoning, such as the principle of double
effect, and how these tools may be most authentically
and productively applied to contemporary
problems in health care, will be of interest
to any chaplain involved in the teaching
or practice of clinical ethics.
Her takeaway message applies to all chaplains
(and to all religious ethicists working in
health care, for that matter). As we have
cast our professional lot with the organized
delivery of health care, we have a moral
obligation to work –really work –to
improve care and access to care, globally
as well as locally. For Cahill, there is
no divide between activists and the rest
of us. As her book’s subtitle suggests,
theological bioethics means participating
in the lives of the sick by acknowledging
and attending to their spiritual needs, but
it also means seeking justice, by working
from our own faith commitments to change
the conditions that perpetuate suffering.
Lisa Sowle Cahill, Theological
Bioethics: Participation, Justice, Change (Georgetown
University Press, 2005); 310 pp.
Nancy Berlinger, Ph.D., M.Div., is Deputy
Director and Associate for Religious Studies
at The Hastings Center in Garrison, New York.
She is the author of After Harm: Medical
Error and the Ethics of Forgiveness and
is a volunteer on the Chaplaincy Service at
Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center in New
York City.
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