5/2/2007
Vol. 4, No. 7
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Professional
Practice |
Chaplain
Cliff Bond on being
powerless yet powerful
Life,
the 12 Steps
and Crisis Ministry
In
1984, I was working
as chaplain on an in-patient,
28-day alcohol and
drug treatment unit
at St. Francis Hospital
in Topeka, Kansas.
During the course of
one of the treatment
activity groups, I
was paged by the ER
for an emergency situation.
As I left the group
room and hurried toward
the elevator I remember
thinking, “I
wonder what is going
on down there, I don’t
know what I will need
to do or say, so please,
Holy Spirit, help me
be and do what is needed
because I know You
know what I do not.”
And
then I realized the
humor of what was happening.
I had been talking
to addicted people
about the spiritual
nature of the 12 Steps
of AA. Step 1 says
to admit our powerlessness,
step 2 says we came
to believe that a Higher
Power can restore us
to sanity and step
3 says that we made
a decision to turn
our will and life over
to the Higher Power
as we understand that
Higher Power. I remember
clearly the sense of
relief, peace and joy
that came over me as
I chuckled to myself
on the way to a crisis.
I
am not alone when it
comes to taking myself
too seriously. We all
do it at times. Doctors
do it, nurses do it,
clergy do it, parents
do it, employers do
it and probably there
is no one who does
not do it at some time
or other. What I received
that day was a wonderful
reminder from the One
who created me that
I truly am not alone
unless I choose to
be. And even then,
it is only my perception
of being alone that
is real. The promise
and the challenge of
the first 3 of the
12 steps of AA is that
we do not need to take
ourselves seriously
at all. It is okay
to be powerless because
there is power available
to us when we make
the decision to turn
over our will and life
to that Power’s
care. The irony and
the wonderful paradox
is that by admitting
my powerlessness I
had more “power”to
be a helpful part of
the treatment team
in the ER than if I
had gone down in my
own strength. How cool
is that!
Since
that day I have taught
whoever will listen
that the 12 Step Program
is not only about addiction –it
is about living. I
use the first 3 steps
in an intentional way
whenever I am called
to minister in a delicate
or unusually challenging
situation. Even beyond
that, this attitude
has become such a part
of me that the same
process is present
even in the mundane
things of life. It
is okay to be powerless
and to admit it, because
when I do that, I tap
into Power that is
blocked off unless
the decision to accept
it is made.
I
am grateful to the
12 Step Program for
many reasons but its
greatest teaching and
gift to me came that
day when I connected
the recovery program
to spiritual life itself.
The first 3 steps of
the program are the
secret to the value
of my ministry –but
like the Old Timers
say, “It
only works when you
work it.”So,
whether in a recovery
program or not, the
wisdom of the 12 Steps
reaches into our spiritual
core and engenders
ministry that is effective,
helpful and spiritual.
Thank you, Bill W. –and
especially thank you,
Holy Spirit.
Chaplain
Cliff Bond has worked
with clients and families
in the Kansas City
and Topeka area since
1982 as a chaplain
and counselor. Cliff
graduated from Baker
University in 1978
and completed his masters
in Pastoral Care and
Counseling at Emory
University, Atlanta,
in 1981. He completed
an intern year in Clinical
Pastoral Education
in 1982 at Bethany
Medical Center, Kansas
City, KS. During his
22 years as staff chaplain
at St. Francis Health
Center in Topeka he
worked with cancer
patients, persons with
addictions and their
families, presented
workshops on numerous
topics and has been
part of various in-services
and grand rounds in
the community. Currently
he is the Bereavement
Coordinator at Heart
of America Hospice,
Topeka, KS. In his “real
life”he
lives with his wife
Carol, with whom he
enjoys going camping
and being with their
six grandchildren.
He also does some occasional
drag racing with his ‘89
Mustang.
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Advocacy |
Joan Olson on the real questions people
are asking
Focusing
on What is Truly Important
Mrs. J is dying and her daughters
sit beside her bed, chanting their prayers
in Farsi. As they pray, I can almost see
the minarets towering over the city in their
native Iran and feel the heat of the noonday
sun. They are Baha’i, and I have been
invited to walk this journey with them as
the chaplain on their hospice team.
Later in the week I visit Mr. V, a Hmong
gentleman whose health has improved so much
that he’ll probably ‘graduate’from
our hospice program. He and his wife came
to America as refugees after the Vietnam
War. Mr. V fought in General Vang Pao’s
army, assisting the United States in their
attempt to ward off the North Vietnamese
in Laos. Mr. V and his wife are Christians,
having left behind the traditional animistic
beliefs of their ancestors when they left
Laos. Mrs. V gets tears in her eyes when
she recounts the story of how they learned
about God and Jesus and how their faith has
grown since coming to the United States.
Still, every once in a while they whisper
about the evil spirits that occasionally
visit them, disrupting their everyday lives.
We pray for peace and safety, asking for
God’s spirit to bring them comfort
and strength to meet the challenges that
they face.
As a hospice chaplain, I have the honor
of hearing many people tell their stories.
It is central to what I do. Over the years,
I have learned that when the end of life
is near, the most important thing people
do is tell their story. People desperately
want to know that their life has been significant.
No matter who they are, no matter what culture
they come from, their questions are the same: “Who
am I?”“What has my life been
about?”“What will my loved ones
remember about me?”and “What’s
next after this life?”
I remember a woman who lived in a public
housing high-rise. The first time I met her,
we talked about her life and her faith. She
knew her disease was terminal and she said
she wasn’t afraid of anything. I asked
her if she had an image of what the next
life might be like. “Oh yes,”she
sighed. “Heaven is a beautiful place
where there’s sunshine and flowers
and if you need a place to live, someone
will build a house for you.”For this
woman, who had never had very much to call
her own, simply having a house was heaven.
The religious conversation in this country
has become so polarized and so damaging that
I sometimes wonder if we will ever be able
to hear the real questions that people are
asking. When one is faced with the end of
life, they’re not thinking about gay
marriage, tax cuts for the wealthy or the
morality of abortion. Instead, they talk
about their families, wondering how their
loved ones will deal with their death. They
tell the stories that mean the most to them.
And they talk about how hard it is to say
goodbye.
If only we who are not terminally ill could
live like that, with the focus on what is
truly important. Facing death, Mrs. J, Mr.
V and the woman from the high-rise had nothing
left to lose and nothing to protect, so they
were free to tell the truth. And the truth
is this –every life is precious, no
matter who we are. Our journey at the end
is the same. Our stories matter, our lives
on this earth matter. The ones we leave behind
will carry on and be changed because of who
we were and how our lives intertwined. They
will preserve our lives by telling our stories.
Ultimately, I find that a very comforting
thought.
Portions of this article appeared in the Minneapolis
Star Tribune in the Faith and Values
section in October, 2006.
Joan Olson is a spiritual director and
a chaplain for Hospice of the Twin Cities,
a non-profit hospice organization that primarily
serves patients in long-term care facilities
in Minneapolis and St. Paul, MN. Joan earned
her master's degree in theology and pastoral
ministry at The College of St. Catherine in
St. Paul and completed four units of CPE at
Hennepin County Medical Center in Minneapolis.
Prior to joining Hospice of the Twin Cities
in 2003, Joan worked for three years at the
Basilica of Saint Mary in downtown Minneapolis,
coordinating adult faith formation and working
on community interfaith dialogue. Joan is currently
in the process of applying for certification
with APC.
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Education
& Research |
Mark LaRocca-Pitts, Ph.D., BCC on Who we
are
The
Chaplain’s Motive
Why do we do what we do? What motivates
the chaplain? According to Kenneth Burke,
renowned literary critic and author of numerous
books on rhetoric, “any complete statement
about motives will provide some kind of answer
to these five questions: what was done (act),
when or where it was done (scene), who did
it (agent), how he [sic] did it
(agency), and why (purpose).”[1] Furthermore,
Burke contends, from these five questions
or elements, an “‘essential’term,
the ‘casual ancestor’of the lot”can
be found from which one can deduce the other
terms from it “as logical descendents.”[2]
So, of these five elements, which one essentially
determines or generates the others? What
ultimately “moves”(Latin, mōtīves)
the chaplain?
Much of our literature implies that the
scene or context in which we work is determinative
for understanding our motive. VandeCreek’s
and Burton’s assertion that, “the
professional chaplain does not displace local
religious leaders, but fills the special
requirements involved in intense medical
environments,”[3] suggests that what we
do, how we do it and why is
largely a result of where we do
it, i.e., “intense medical environments.”That
is, our context moves or motivates us.[4]
The first section of Holst’s book on
hospital ministry is titled “Context
and Identity,”[5] which further suggests
that at least our identity (the Who) is somehow
dependent on our medical context (the Where).
The Where of our work, i.e., the context
or scene, significantly determines the Why,
the How, and the What of the chaplain’s
motive, but, I would argue, only secondarily.
The real “casual ancestor”of
the chaplain’s motive is not the Where,
but the Who.[6] That is, the chaplain does
not become a chaplain or function as a chaplain
because of Where the chaplain is. Instead,
Why we do What we do is ultimately because
of Who we are.
Robert Kidd best illustrates the primacy
of agent for understanding the chaplain’s
motive as follows:
I re-learned that a chaplain is something
I simply am. Put me to work in a Wal-Mart,
I’ll wind up functioning as a chaplain.
Put me to telephone solicitation and I’ll
find a way to be a chaplain. Put me to
delivering mail, I’ll be a chaplain
to those I encounter on my route and in
the post office. Professional chaplaincy
is in my blood and in my heart. I have
what many of you would describe as a calling.[7]
We as chaplains are Where we are, doing
What we do, because of Who we are. It
is from Who we are that our “spiritual
sensitivity”flows,[8] and it is in
our “Whoness”that our patients
connect with us in what Martin Buber calls
the “I-Thou”relationship. Once
we are there –wherever “there”is
(military, hospital, hospice, prison, business,
etc.) –then certain actions (assessments,
interventions, charting) that use certain
agencies (presence, listening, prayer)
all for a variety of purposes (restore,
heal, communicate to team members) are
utilized. But the role of the setting or
context in determining various actions,
agencies and purposes only secondarily
influences the chaplain’s motive.
The chaplain’s primary motivation
comes from Who the chaplain is as an agent.
This aspect of the chaplain’s motive
may seem like common sense. And so it should.
Chaplaincy is, after all, a vocation and
as such it begins with the person as agent.
But in our quest to become fully integrated
members of the clinical team with all the
appropriate tools and with all the correct
terminology, we often lose sight of this
aspect of Who we are and its importance.[9]
When we do this we shift from being active
agents of change to being passive agencies
at the mercy of our settings. There are aspects
of Who we are as chaplains that may never
fully fit in with the medical/clinical/scientific
model and as we continue to negotiate and
fine tune this “fit”we need to
be aware if and when the desire to “fit”outweighs
the integrity of Who we are.
[1] Kenneth Burke, A Grammar of Motives (Berkeley,
CA: University of California Press, 1969),
p. xv.
[2] Ibid., p. xxii. Space permitting, a
more complex analysis would not reduce motive
to a single element, but would instead examine
the various relationships (Burke’s “ratios”)
among the five elements. Burke labels this
type of analysis as “pentadic analysis.”
[3] Larry VandeCreek and Laurel Burton, “A
White Paper: Professional Chaplaincy: Its
Role and Importance in Healthcare,”JPC 55,
1 (Spring 2001), p. 84; see also, James L.
Gibbons & Sherry L. Miller, “An
Image of Contemporary Hospital Chaplaincy,”JPC 43,
4 (Winter 1989), p. 360.
[4] Larry Austin, “Hospitals are Not
Houses of Worship,”PlainViews vol.
1, no. 18 (10/20/2004), http://www.plainviews.org/AR/c/v1n18/er.html.
[5] Lawrence E. Holst, ed., Hospital
Ministry: The Role of the Chaplain Today (New
York: Crossroads, 1991).
[6] I would also argue this is the “causal ancestor”for all religious
leaders and that differences based on where we practice, how we practice, what
we practice and why are important and often critical, but secondary or tertiary.
Thus, we must be careful of the manner in which we distinguish differences
between local clergy and chaplains.
[7] Robert Kidd, Three Streams (Presidential
Address, Albuquerque, NM, 2005). Published
at http://www.professionalchaplains.org/uploadedFiles/pdf/president-address-2005.pdf.
[8] Noel Brown, “A Chaplaincy Letter
From America,”Scottish Journal
of Healthcare Chaplaincy, 2, 1 (1999),
16.
[9] Timothy E. Madison, “Can Chaplaincy
Be Sold Without Selling Out?”CT 14,
2 (1998), 3-8.
Chaplain Mark LaRocca-Pitts, Ph.D., BCC,
is a Staff Chaplain at Athens (GA) Regional
Medical Center and is endorsed by the United
Methodist Church. Mark is an Adjunct Professor
in the Religion Department at the University
of Georgia and also pastors a three-point rural
UM charge. Mark is board certified with APC
and is a member of its History Committee, its
Commission on Quality in Pastoral Services,
and its Continuing Chaplaincy Education (CCE)
Reviewers Sub-Education Committee.
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Spiritual
Development |
Rev. Patricia Wright on the importance of
brief encounters
“Haven’t
You People Done Enough?”
My first meeting with M was
not what I would call stellar. He practically
threw me out of his room. After I had identified
myself as a chaplain and asked if there was
anything I could do for him, his response
was, “Haven’t you people done
enough?”Quickly realizing that now
was not the time to visit with M, I excused
myself but let him know of my availability
should he change his mind about our services.
M was a young man, a war veteran, who had
been diagnosed with leukemia. I knew he needed
support. I also knew it would take time and
effort to be able to provide that support.
M was a patient in our hospital for several
months. He and his girlfriend became familiar
faces in the hall. Everyone knew about him,
and knew about his moods. He tended to dismiss
people from his presence quite often and
with no regard to civility or politeness.
He was blunt and no one ever wondered what
he was thinking.
Over the course of several months I would
briefly say hi to M on occasion. Once he
was playing guitar in his room and I commented
on the music. Once I saw him laying down
a racetrack for electric cars and asked about
it briefly. Once he was eating lunch in the
hall as I was making rounds and we struck
up a conversation. All very brief encounters,
none were overtly religious, but there were
comments on his priorities and his personality
nonetheless. I usually had to remind him
of who I was, and he always seemed to be
surprised that I was the chaplain.
As M’s condition worsened, he and
his family were expecting a miracle to save
him. They had faith, but they never spoke
to me about it. I heard all this from the
nurses.
Finally, as the end drew near, M and his
girlfriend decided they wanted to get married.
M couldn’t leave the hospital. He was
too sick. His girlfriend, who just happened
to be a wedding planner, took matters into
her own hands and started planning what needed
to happen.
To my amazement, they asked me to perform
the ceremony. I was honored.
It was the most sacred moment I have ever
been a part of, leading this couple in their
vows. There wasn’t a dry eye in the
room. Of course along with all their friends
and family were so many staff members from
all over the hospital. It was amazing. Everyone
knew how poignant a moment this was. I have
never seen a happier groom, or more radiant
bride.
Sadly, within two weeks M died. His new
wife came to me and asked that I perform
his funeral service. Again, I was honored.
Before meeting this couple I had never performed
a wedding or a funeral. I thought it was
appropriate that the first time I presided
at a funeral, it was for the same young man
who had been the groom at the first wedding
I conducted. We had come a very long way
from “Haven’t you people done
enough?”
Rev. Patricia J-M Wright (PJ), M.Div.,
was recently Board Certified by the Association
of Professional Chaplains and serves as chaplain
for the Women's and Children's Services and
the Oncology Services for St. Peter's Hospital
in Albany, NY. She received her master's degree
from Baptist Theological Seminary at Richmond
in Virginia and her CPE training at Baptist
Hospital, Winston-Salem; Rex Healthcare, Raleigh;
and New Hanover Regional Medical Center, Wilmington;
all in North Carolina. She is endorsed for
chaplaincy by the Alliance of Baptists. She
is married, and all of her current children
are of the four-footed furry variety.
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spiritual care as an ethical enterprise.
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care providers and those they serve need
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Toxic
Humor
“The Imus virus”,[1] an insidious
social infection, is much in the news. Characterized
by toxic humor, it infiltrates educational
and religious institutions, health care facilities,
and most work places, as well as the media,
the last which the others blame for the virus’presence
in their midst. The resistance, by otherwise
sensible souls, to examination and inoculation
of their own environments against infestation
is an ethically perplexing aspect of the
virus.
Humor, according to Webster’s, “implies
an ability to perceive the ludicrous, the
comical and the absurd in human life and
to express these, usually without bitterness.”[2]
The definition ought to give pause to anyone
who assumes a routine role for humor in an
educational program or work place. One person’s
perception of “ludicrous”or “absurd”may
be another person’s lived reality.
Shock jocks like Imus mine the proclivity
for turning another’s demographic profile,
social stratum, economic status or personal
attributes into toxic humor. When people
in positions of power or influence mistake
degradation for comedy, the wound spreads
wider than the immediate audience. Following
Imus’characterization of the Rutgers
women, a Brooklyn police sergeant reportedly
used the same words during roll call.[3]
No one goes to school or work with the expectation
of being comedic fodder for rapper-imitators.
Most people appreciate good jokes, communal
laughter, and times of shared bemusement
at life’s quirks, but the class clown
can morph easily into the office bully. Astute
teachers and supervisors should be asking:
what’s missing in this person’s
life, what is he or she not receiving from
this environment? And, when humor is toxic,
it must be stopped.
To begin a dialogue about healthy humor,
the following guideline is proposed. Please
submit additions that clarify how we can
engage education and work place humor delightfully
rather than hurtfully.
A Rudimentary Guide
to Work Place Humor
1) Like the person(s) to whom
and about whom you are speaking well enough
to know and care about their sensibilities.
2) If it’s not language you would
use with your mother or child, don’t
use it at work.
3) Direct irony only towards yourself or
your own situation.
4) Never use sarcasm (intent and impact
are often wounding).
5) Most spiritual care providers are neither
rappers nor street folk. Don’t adopt
the language or attitude of either in the
work place.
6) Stories or “jokes”in which
the subjects or objects are people of different
racial, ethnic, religious, gender, or sexual
orientation than you, are never appropriate
in the work place, no matter how well you
think you know the listener(s). Racist, sexist,
ageist, and homophobic comments are never
appropriate, clever, or funny anywhere.
7) Stories or “jokes”targeting
physical or mental conditions are never appropriate
anywhere.
8) Stories or “jokes”about patients
or students are never appropriate without
their express permission for the particular
occasion.
9) Stories or “jokes”about your
colleagues should be saved for retirement “roasts,”and
then told with loving discretion. What you
consider “funny”may not be to
the colleague.
10) Remember: the measure of appropriateness
is the impact on others, not your intent.
Footnotes:
[1] New York Attorney Bonita Zelman’s
phrase as quoted by Bob Herbert in “Words
as Weapons,”The New York
Times Op-Ed section, Monday, April 23,
2007.
[2] Webster’s Seventh New Collegiate
Dictionary, 1971.
[3] Id. “Words as Weapons.”
Anne Underwood has an undergraduate degree
in religious studies, a master’s degree in
rural sociology and a mid-life law degree obtained
after working over a decade as a college administrator.
She has mediated for the Maine family courts
since 1983. Currently she serves as an advisor
to the ethics commissions of ACPE, APC, the
CCAR (Central Conference of American Rabbis),
and NAJC, and consults with a variety of Protestant
faith communities on issues of power, fair
process, and congregational conflict management.
Her articles on mediation and restorative justice
have appeared in the ACPE News, The APC News
and on the ACPE web site. Articles on clergy
accountability and judicatory processes are
published by the Alban Institute and The
Journal on Religion and Abuse. A chapter,
“Clergy Sexual Misconduct: A Justice Issue,”
appears in Body and Soul: Rethinking Sexuality
as Justice-Love, Marvin Ellison and Sylvia
Thorson-Smith, editors, The Pilgrim Press,
2003.
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CaseConference |
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that has arisen in a facility where one
of our readers works. It has no identifiers
included. It gives you only the facts of
the case. Then, you can respond to that
concern. This is an ongoing dialogue, with
comments added as they come in. In the
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we give you the outcome from the facility
where the incident took place.
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but will enable all of our readers to learn
from the experiences and perhaps mistakes
of others.
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Editor's note: this case
was submitted by a chaplain seeking feedback
on his/her own work. This is part of why
CaseConference was created. We applaud this
chaplain for stepping forward to seek consultation
in this very public way and we hope others
will do likewise. This is an example of how
we might all improve our practice and advance
best practice in our profession.
Case #18 (please see below
for responses)
A code pink was called in the urgent care
clinic. The chaplain responded to the call
and was informed that an infant boy had died.
The specialist explained to the team that
the child’s death was expected, although
he died much sooner than anticipated. The
condition could not be treated. Another doctor
asked the specialist if she was okay. She
said she was fine, stating again that his
death was expected.
The chaplain was directed to the grandmother
and stayed with her until the nurse manager
arrived to escort them to view the dead child.
The grandmother had brought the child to
the clinic for the first appointment with
a specialist. The family had moved to the
area recently. Prior to their move, their
son had been diagnosed with a terminal condition.
When the parents and the grandfather arrived,
the chaplain continued to be present with
them. They welcomed the time to be with their
child.
The specialist came into the room very briefly
when the parents arrived. She offered a quick
summary of what had happened and then left.
The parents grieved appropriately. (Yes,
they expected their child to die but not
that day.) The reason for the referral to
this specialist was their hope that treatment
would ease their child’s pain and allow
them to hold him without discomfort to him.
After the family left, the chaplain visited
with some members of the staff, and later
attempted to determine if a debriefing session
would be called. The nurse manager, who decides
if there will be a debriefing session, decided
that a session was not needed (the staff
had not requested one). Even with the support
of the director of pastoral care, the nurse
manager did not see the need for the session.
What is the chaplain’s role when he/she
feels that a decision made is incorrect?
How can the chaplain ensure that staff involved
are given the support needed so that they
can continue to do their jobs?
What is the chaplain’s role with the
specialist?
What is the chaplain’s role with the
nurse manager?
Is there a systemic issue that the chaplain
needs to consider and try to improve?
Case # 18 responses
My first
observation is that if the chaplain sees
the need for a debriefing, but the staff,
the nurse manager, and the physician do
not, then perhaps it is the chaplain who
experienced the child's death as traumatic
and not the medical staff. Certainly the
death of a child is one of those events
that is usually high on a critical incident
list, but not every member of a team experiences
the same event in the same way and what
is traumatic for one staff member may not
be traumatic for another staff member,
what is not traumatic today may be devastating
tomorrow or a month from now. The impact
of this child's death may hit certain staff
members later, or it may be triggered by
another child's death, or it simply may
not be a critical incident for this staff
in this time and this place.
My second observation is that within the
tools available for critical incident stress
management, perhaps the chaplain chose the
wrong intervention or limited him/herself
to a single intervention rather than considering
the many tools available in a situation like
this and offering the nurse manager and the
staff some options other than debriefing.
A debriefing is a major intervention in terms
of time, money, and emotional investment
and to pursue debriefing when a staff does
not want or need one is wasteful. It can
also be hurtful to force debriefing on staff
who do not want or need it. It isn't a matter
of debriefing or nothing. Perhaps if the
chaplain had offered pastoral care or a different
critical incident tool -- defusing or demobilization,
for instance -- the nurse manager and the
rest of the staff would have been more receptive
or would have seen their need in a different
light. Following some other preliminary critical
incident intervention or just good pastoral
care, they may have welcomed a debriefing
later. Certainly, they will view the chaplain
in a different light if the chaplain offers
what the staff needs rather than what the
chaplain wants to give.
My third observation is that the chaplain
still has available to him/her the gifts
and interventions of pastoral care to offer
that staff on an ongoing basis. The staff
are denying the need for a debriefing. They
may or may not need a debriefing, but they
state that they do not. They may, on the
other hand, welcome the pastoral support
and care of a gifted chaplain.
My fourth observation is that this case
refers to the medical staff -- nurses, nurse
managers, specialists -- but makes no mention
of the other staff who witnessed the child's
death or the events surrounding the child's
death -- housekeeping, clerical, administrative
staff, security. A child death in any setting
is shocking; a child death in an outpatient
clinic is especially shocking. The other
staff who were present need to be included
in any critical incident response and in
the chaplain's follow-up care. It is possible
that their managers and directors would welcome
intervention that the nurse manager does
not.
My fifth observation is that the chaplain
him/herself may be in need of post-critical
incident intervention which his/her director
can provide or arrange in order for the chaplain
to return to work.
What is the chaplain's role with the nurse
manager? If the nurse manager were refusing
pastoral care and critical incident intervention
when the staff is saying they need it, then
the chaplain's role is clear. However, in
this instance the staff, too, are saying
they do not need an intervention at this
time and are ready and able to return to
work. The chaplain's role is to be sensitive
to their needs, to be available when they
do need intervention -- which may be the
next shift, the next month, or the next child
death -- and to have more than one intervention
to offer. The chaplain's role is not to play
pastor-knows-best.
Is there a systemic issue that the chaplain
needs to consider and try to improve? That's
difficult to answer on the basis of the information
provided. If the critical incident policies
and procedures for this setting are not clear
or are not reasonable or are only honored
in the breech, then there may be a need for
review, for a champion in the system, or
for other action. The chaplain can be an
effective and appropriate advocate for those
things. Perhaps the systemic issue is that
the chaplain does not have the trust of the
staff or the nurse manager and so any care
offered will be declined; again, the chaplain's
role or the director's role is clear if this
is the situation. Perhaps the systemic issue
is systemic w/in the chaplain, though, who
desperately needs to provide pastoral care
to a staff who do not want, and may or may
not need, the specific care the chaplain
is offering them in the moment.
Linda Brown
Staff Chaplain / Coordinator of Spiritual Health Services
Truman Medical Center - Hospital Hill
Kansas City, MO
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Sarah
Masters reviews the audio meditation
When
Things Fall Apart
Buddhist nun Pema Chodron primarily
reflects on the complexities of being compassionate
in this abridged audio-CD set of her book
of the same title.
She singles out in particular those individuals
who want to help others. Chodron points out
that the individual who needs help, whether
it is spiritual guidance, financial assistance,
or any other kind of help, can often trigger
unresolved issues in the person wishing to
help. “Even though we want to help,
and maybe we do help for a few days or a
month or two, sooner or later someone walks
through that door and pushes all our buttons," she
says.
Chaplains and others involved in reaching
out to individuals can end up struggling
with dislike or fear of the individual in
need, or feel unable to constructively handle
the situation, according to Chodron. “Sooner
or later,”she cautions, “all
our own unresolved issues will come up; we'll
be confronted with ourselves.”
In this 2-CD set, Pema Chodron calls on
individuals involved in compassionate outreach
to realize that “compassionate action
involves working with ourselves as much as
working with others.”She considers
compassionate action a practice, or skill,
and believes that “there’s nothing
more advanced than relating with others.
There’s nothing more advanced than
communication, compassionate communication.”
Pema Chodron is resident teacher at Gampo
Abbey in Cape Breton, Nova Scotia. She is
also the author of The Wisdom of No Escape and Start
Where You Are.
Completed: 2001
Running Time: 150 Minutes/2 CDs
Publisher: Sounds True
If you are interested in purchasing this CD set, you can do so at www.hartleyfoundation.org.
Just click on “Sages of Our Age”on the homepage for more information.
The cost is $24.95 for the 2-CD set.
Sarah Masters is the Managing
Director of the Hartley Film Foundation,
a non-profit foundation dedicated to cultivation,
support, production and distribution of
the best documentaries and audio meditations
on world religions, spirituality, ethics
and well-being.
Book
Review
Rabbi
Dr. David J. Zucker, BCC, reviews
A
Time for Listening and Caring:
Spirituality and the Care of the Chronically Ill and Dying
As His Holiness the Dalai Lama wrote in
the Foreword to this volume, “In the
practice of healing, a kind heart is as valuable
as medical training . . . other people respond
to kindness even when medicine is ineffective
. . . Real care of the sick [begins . . .]
with the simple acts of affection, love and
concern.”(p. vii) The role of Spirituality
in the care of seriously ill, chronically
ill, and dying patients is the basis for
this book. The book’s editor and major
contributor is Christina M. Puchalski, MD,
who serves as Director of the George Washington
Institute of Spirituality and Health (GWISH).
She is an internationally recognized leader
in the field of integrating spirituality
and healthcare.
This diverse book, divided into four sections, reflects lessons learned from
patients and scientific research, scholarly study, as well as the experiences
of clinicians, chaplains, clergy, caregivers, and educators. This work wonderfully
combines theory and practice: it addresses the whys and the hows of spiritual
care and then, offers pragmatic advice for hands-on caregivers.
•“Spirituality, Beliefs, Ethics,
Presence and Relationship,”explores
some general principles about spirituality,
considers the role of the chaplain and
the spirituality of the caregiver and patient.
It stresses the importance of being a compassionate
presence, and the healing power of relationship-centered
care. Puchalski herself considers the role
of spirituality in patient care and writes
about the “Spiritual Stages of Dying.”Spirituality
is not a one-size fits all enterprise.
A separate chapter by Patricia Fosarelli
looks at “The Spiritual Issues Faced
by Children and Adolescents.”Spiritual
Care is an ethical imperative explains
Laurence J. O’Connell. Stephen Mann
addresses “The Role of Chaplains
in the Care of the Dying: A Partnership
between the Religious Community and the
Healthcare Community.”
•“Theological and Religious
Perspectives”considers the theological
implications of spiritual care, presenting
several religious and cultural traditions.
A number of chapters focus on end-of-life
care. Examples include Mary Lou O’Gorman’s
contribution, which offers a Catholic Perspective,
while Imam Yusuf Hasan and Yusef Salaam’s
chapter addresses “Faith and Islamic
Issues at the End of Life.”“Spirituality,
Suffering, and Prayerful Presence within
Jewish Tradition,”David J. Zucker
and Bonita E. Taylor, (the chapter I coauthored)
takes a broader approach to the subject.
Individual chapters present Buddhist, Catholic,
Protestant, Hindu, Islamic, Jewish and
Ojibwe [Native American/First Nation] perspectives.
•“Application and Tools”covers
a wide area of pragmatic approaches. Puchalski
wrote the first chapter wherein she offers
practical tools for spiritual care. “Honoring
the Patient’s Story”by John
D. Engel, Lura Pethtel, and Joseph Zarconi;
Michael Stillwater-Korns and Gary Malkin’s “The
Role of Music at the End of Life,”“The
Arts: A Nondenominational Tool for Reconnecting
Spirituality and Medicine”by Betheanne
Deluca-Verley, and Paul Tshudi’s “Grief:
A Wall or a Door”are found in this
section.
•“Patient Stories and Reflection”includes
the experiences of women and men in their
journeys through what Cornelius Bennhold
terms the “Transformation and Redemption
through the Dark Night of the Soul.”
Helpful Appendices feature sections on Resources,
Religious Beliefs and Practices, plus Advance
Directives in the Protestant, Catholic, Jewish
and Muslim traditions. The Contributors Page
includes e-mail addresses should someone
want to contact an author for more information.
Puchalski, Christina M., editor. A Time
for Listening and Caring: Spirituality
and the Care of the Chronically Ill and
Dying. New York: Oxford University
Press, 2006, pp. 458. Foreword by His Holiness
the Dalai Lama.
Rabbi Dr. David J. Zucker, BCC, a member
of the Advisory Board of PlainViews,
is a frequent contributor to this forum. He
is Director of Behavioral Services at Shalom
Park, a senior continuum of care center in
Aurora, CO. He Chaired (or Co-Chaired with
Rabbi Bonita E Taylor) eight consecutive NAJC
annual conferences, including the 2003 EPIC
Cognate Chaplains’conference in Toronto
where he was Chair of the Executive Planning
Committee. Paulist Press recently published
David’s new book, The Torah: An
Introduction for Christians and Jews (2005) –reviewed
in PlainViews, 2/1/2006, Vol. 3, No.
1.
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